Better to be single and have friends instead seems
to be the way to go! But there is always some person out there who can melt even the hardest hearts and can
tear down your fortified walls! A soulmate who can change your life by their presence! I have met a few of
these types, but none of them stayed around. A relationship needs to have a life of at least two years to
consider it being a long term one. And by dating, both of you will know within a six month period if things
will work out or not. Remember that rejection is someone telling you that "they" are not right for you! That
is why you date in the first place. It has to work both ways. Hope regardless in an endless search for some!
And so the Wandering Hobo continues the search for that much sought after soulmate as he wanders through the
days that lie ahead and on into the new millenium just counting each day of being alive a blessing in itself!
- March 24, 2001
It seems like the best way to have things is for each person to have their own place and always be able to
retreat back to their own space. Each person needs time for themselves to grow individually plus time for
each other to nurture their relationship. A happy balance as I call it. I think for me, I would rather
just to have friendships and leave the relationships to others who want them. Relationships are complicated
and I like to live a simplier lifestyle. - April 11, 2001
I guess I see it as life is something that is between you and GOD and a companion is someone to share life
with along the road til you arrive at the end of the road. There are just some places where you can only
journey alone although GOD nevers leaves your side so you are never alone in them places. - April 28, 2001
I guess I have come a long ways since I started this webpage after my divorce. Looking back now I can see
that a closed heart, fortified walls will not let even a soulmate penetrate them. It wasn't till my walls
got removed on August 2, 2003 that I learned that lesson the hard way and had given a possible soulmate away
to someone else. There is still a possibility that things might still work out but only time will tell now.
- August 31, 2003
Sometimes in life you can never go back but only to learn from mistakes along the way. Since I always ended
up back on square one, I figured that I might just as well stay there and take out a few years and not date
further. I set Sept 15, 2003 as my closing date in which I would concentrate on completing many house projects.
On September 13, 2003, I met a soulmate. I asked a LOT of questions and searched out her personality and
could find no yellow or red flags about her. She had done the same screening on me. On December 13, 3 months
later since we met, I gave her an engagement ring. Miracles do happen! - December 22, 2003
Here are a few thoughts "Never look back unless you intend to go that direction!"
"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do
not see the one which has been opened for us." - Feb 23, 2004
Well, I was married on Oct 24, 2004 and now begins the journey as a couple ending that single life adventure.
Onward!
And then towards the end of November, 2009, I decided to go ahead with introducing Dr. Lovedart to help those
out there with their romance questions. I have two friends who have recently broke up with their girlfriends
and are in a depressed state.
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